"The decision to face the darkness, even if it led to overwhelming pain,
showed me that the experience of loss itself does not have to be the defining
moment of our lives. Instead, the defining moment can be our response to
the loss. It is not what happens to us that matters as much as what happens in us."
- Jerry Sittser in A Grace Disguised *
* This book is available wherever books are sold and is copyrighted 2004